You Are Your Own World

Description：

There's likely a type of person around you—or perhaps you are that person—who is often described as «nice» by others, even though deep down, you don't want to be that way. You struggle to refuse others' requests, often finding yourself caught in difficult situations. Sensitive and prone to overthinking, you try to guess others' thoughts, worrying about being disliked.

People with people-pleasing tendencies often live exhausting lives. Despite not wanting to be this way, they subconsciously and habitually seek to accommodate and please others. As a result, they frequently feel insecure, even coming to dislike themselves, which creates a heavy emotional burden and significant social pressure.

Author Biography：

Qiao Ziqing, once a straightforward and genuine girl from Beijing, used to be a senior executive at a multinational company. Now, she is a graceful full-time mother and dedicated writer. A graduate of a prestigious university, she leads a life rich in experience and possesses a resolute inner strength. Her writing is warm and powerful, with notable works including Your Boldness Must Match Your Capability, Let Happiness Last, and Living the Life You Want.